I am on my knees. Love to every one of you…may you find support to feel all of your feelings and to be kind to yourselves. Love, Kathy. I want to know how do you look forward to anything anymore,I lost my love of my life Feb 24 this year,we were married 48 years,together since I was I try everday but it is hard. To answer your question about how will we ever get over our loss and start anew????? I just try to cope from day to day there is no magic formula to help us with our great loss!
It is what it is! I have no future, only the present and some days are kinder than others! I hope all of you are doing better than I am! Love Patricia. Dear Left Behind: I could write what you have written word for word as I am having the same feelings.
My husband has been gone 1 week tomorrow! The funeral was yesterday. He died from lung cancer. He did not die peacefully.
In fact it was the opposite. He struggled as I held him right to the end. I just want to be with him. No, I am not suicidal. I am not going to make it happen but I just wish it would, to stop the pain which I cant bear and so that we can be together again. My husband is on my mind constantly. I talk to him, ask him to talk back to me, come and see me, take me. We were married for 22 years and we were soul mates.
The children and grandchildren have busy lives like yours. I am not alone, I have two young foster children. I try to be strong for them and try not to cry in front of them. I wonder whether I will be able to care for them or God forgive me even if I want to.
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I am just going through the motions. I am able to get out of bed unfortunately and I can do my housework and all the mundane things. Went to the local shop thismorning and just lost it and broke down crying. Everyone stared. I am 63, my husband is Too young to die. Our children are adults. There is no reason for me to be here. I lost my husband 2 months ago. He was also Everyday is a struggle for me since he passed away. I miss him a lot. I love him so much.
I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost my beloved husband 87 days ago just before his 55 th birthday. He died suddenly while we were watching TV I tried to revive him but could not neith could medics. I have known my hubby since kindergarten and we reconnected later in life. We were together almost four years married this past July and he died in Oct. I miss him every second and just want him back. I never even got to say goodbye. The pain of it is incredible and no people that have not experienced the loss of a spouse may THINK they understand it but they do not.
Not one little bit as they get to go home and feel the comfort of their well alive partner. I lost my husband from melanoma cancer 4 weeks ago he was 54 years old. We were 1, my best friend my soul mate. I also can not stop crying. So lost without him. My husband, Raymond, passed away 5 days before Christmas last December.
He had many health issues when a stroke finally did him in. We were together then married for 23 years. I went thru the grieving process and at the same time took care of practical matters. I missed him terribly but thought I was holding it together pretty well. Yesterday as I was cleaning out a drawer, I found a 15 page love letter that my husband wrote to me back in when we were first together.
I am so totally devastated and the grief I had felt back in the beginning pales in comparison to how I feel now. The love that I feel for him is so deep now and I did not want to face how lonely I was without him. I have been crying on and off since reading this letter. I went and wrote a love letter back to him re-telling our history and confirming my love to him. I have his ashes still and when I am ready to strew some of it, as per his wishes, I will burn my love letter to him and scatter this with his ashes. Writing the letter made me feel closer to him and a little better.
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I pray with all my being that he will wait for me until my time comes so we can be together for always. Thank you all for listening to me. My husband of 30 years slipped away from me February 22, Lung cancer claimed him after a two-year battle, and it was an ugly, painful, and difficult battle. I pray he knew I was holding his hand and singing to him in the end. The doctors were cruel and impatient, and the hospital staff was rude in their rush to have me make arrangements for his body so they could clear his room. I was left emotionally and physically drained after two years of caring for him while attending grad school.
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I was also left homeless and penniless by his passing. At the mercy of well-meaning but clueless friends and their couches and spare rooms, grief is rarely a luxury I am allowed — I have even been chastised for not fully appreciating what I had. For all of you suffering the loss of your husband, I understand the depth of your grief, and wish I had the right words to comfort you, as well as myself. For anyone who is trying to help someone else grieve, please, PLEASE, understand we are doing the best we can in a world we no longer understand, or much care for.
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I am a Therapist, surrounded by Therapists, but this is a deeply personal journey. I was unprepared for the length and depth of my grief, and am just grateful. As our anniversary approaches next week, I feel the sadness and anxiety threaten to overwhelm me again. How are we supposed to bear this and remain human? I also lost my husband and partner after 30 years in March Cancer is a dreadful painful disease. David was very nasty as his pain increased. Frustration of not being the leader.
My only way of carrying on is I will survive because that is what he would have wanted. Chin up. Hi Julie. I understand how you feel. I lost my husband April 25th from the flu. It is so raw still for both of us. Reality has set in for me but I still cry everyday and miss him terribly.
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God is what keeps me together and gives me a little light in this lonely journey. Know you have people on this site who share your grief with you do care. I lost my wonderful husband on January the 13th We lived for each other, we were soul mates. We were married for 46 years. I miss him so much that it actually hurts, I feel so lost and lonely. I went to a group therapy session for widows and widowers and I saw people in my same predicament and heard them say exactly what I am thinking.
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